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Honoring Mommy & Daddy

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I posted this a few years ago and thought it might be helpful today.

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The Ten Commandment are given to us to protect and enhance our daily lives. A young child is taught to respect the commandments and all of the scriptures. Hopefully through, and with, the love of their parents or some other loving individual.

Many times the commandment, “Honor your mother and father” is taught by an abusive person as a means of control and manipulation. His/her distorted version of this commandment can and does cause many problems later in life for the survivor of childhood sexual abuse.

It can also distort His word for those who have been physically or emotionally abused. Particularly if that abuse was from those closest to the child, the parent.

“These are the commandments the Lord

proclaimed in a loud voice…

Honor your father and your mother

as the Lord your God has commanded you,

so that you may live long and that it

may go…

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Understanding Panic Attacks and Anxiety

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Understanding Panic Attacks and Anxiety 

Everyone experiences anxiety from time to time, but for some people, anxiety is more than just butterflies in the stomach and sweaty palms. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, roughly 18.1 percent of the nation suffers from an anxiety disorder.
Unfortunately, only 36.9 percent of these people receive treatment for their anxiety, which leaves millions of people suffering in silence.

Struggling with anxiety is scary enough, but some people also experience panic attacks. These intense episodes of fear are debilitating and accompanied by both emotional distress and physical symptoms. Learning about panic attacks can help you get a better grasp on your anxiety.

If you’re reading this because a friend to family member is suffering from panic attacks, this article will help you get in their head space and provide comfort during their scariest moments.

What is a panic attack?

A panic attack is a sudden onset of extreme fear, anxiety and discomfort. They can happen after a long period of anxiety or strike out of the blue, and continued episodes can increase anxiety by making sufferer’s fearful of having a panic attack in public, at work or around their loved ones.

Signs of a Panic Attack

The Anxiety and Depression Association of America provides a list of common panic attack symptoms. Learning to identify these symptoms in yourself and others can make you more equipped to handle them when they arise.

– Rabid heartbeat or palpitations.
Trembling or shaking.
Feeling of choking or suffocating.
Numbness and tingling (paresthesia).
Fear of dying.
Fear of losing one’s mind or feeling like you’re “going crazy”.
Feeling of detachment from reality (derealization) or detachment from one’s self or body (depersonalization).

How to Prevent Panic Attacks and Manage Anxiety

The first step toward preventing panic attacks is to identify personal triggers and symptoms. Understanding the signs of an oncoming panic attack will help you stay in control during an episode.

If you suffer from panic attacks, you might develop what is known as “anticipatory anxiety”, which is anxiety about having a panic attack or feeling anxious. You may also develop phobic anxiety, which causes you to avoid social situations where your anxiety might flare up and lead to a panic attack that embarasses you or makes you feel trapped.

Some ways to combat panic attacks include:

– Deep breathing.
Practice mindfulness (focus on the present, acknowledge your anxiety).
Relax one muscle of the body at a time.
Focus on a specific object in the room.
Repeat a personal mantra.

How to Help Someone Having a Panic Attack

Watching someone lose control during a panic attack can be just as frightening as having one. It’s okay to be afraid, but it’s also important to support your friend or family member during this time. First, take a deep breath so you can remain calm and centered. Speak evenly and in a soothing tone, but don’t confine the person or try to hold or hug them unless they ask you. Most people having panic attacks feel trapped, and pinning them down (even in an embrace) can make them feel worse.

Instead, tell them to focus on you and your voice. Acknowledge their fear. Don’t tell them it isn’t real; anxiety is real and feels real to anyone experiencing it. Lead them through several deep breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. Then, have them identify five things they can see. Next, five things they can hear. After that, five things they can smell or touch. This process will help “ground” them to the present and refocus their spiraling thoughts.

If someone is especially panicked, continue to lead them through breathing exercises. Asthmatics may need their inhaler if they hyperventilate, but do not force anyone to respond, speak or do anything during a panic attack. After a few minutes, the attack will begin to subside and they will be more coherent. Patience and serenity are key.

When to Seek Professional Help

If your panic attacks have become extremely frequent, worsened your anxiety and led to a total aversion of social situations, speak to a local mental health professional. A psychologist can help you develop a working strategy to combat your anxiety and prevent further attacks. If you have an anxiety disorder, a psychologist can refer you to a psychiatrist who can prescribe you medications to accompany your treatment.

The worst thing about anxiety is the helplessness it brings. But you aren’t helpless in getting help, so don’t be afraid to reach out when you need it and get your life in control again.
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Predators Hide in Plain Sight

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Online Predators

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ANNA WALDHERR A Voice Reclaimed, Surviving Child Abuse

“Danger Mines!” Warning sign re:  hidden mine shafts, Sri Lanka, Author Adam Jones, Source Flickr (CC BY-SA 2.0 Generic)

We have all heard reports of online child molesters who haunt websites popular with children and teens; assume false identities; make use of the details on public profiles to entice victims to a meeting; then abduct them.  Any parent’s blood would run cold at the thought.

Far more often, however, it is statutory rape rather than abduction that results from online predation [1][2].

Research shows that the vast majority of teens who interact with an unknown individual online are aware when that individual is an adult, whether the interaction is via email, instant messaging or a chatroom.  Any deception that takes place is more likely to involve love than identity.

If the adult is a predator (typically 10 or more years older than the victim), sex is usually mentioned up front…

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If You Have a Pulse, God Has a Plan

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A powerful and heartfelt testimony.

Thursday’s Pen Tip #14

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Rejoice in Him

As the pain filled memories flow for they are memories not actual acts of today.

Rejoice in Him

When the pain swells to tidal waves within it is pain that is being brought to land; sand filters, cleans.

Rejoice in Him

for He who loves you removes the old within a damaged soul. Rejoice, for He fills those area’s that have been left vacant of those hurtful things.

Rejoice in Him

for He is filling, giving of Himself to bring you to a place where you can rejoice in Him.

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Where’s Justice for the Victim?

New York: Convicted Cop Who Made Porn With 13-Year-Old Girl Given Over $58,000 by Dept & Allowed To Retire


A New York Police Officer who pleaded guilty to sexually exploiting a 13-year-old girl by creating pornography was not only allowed to retire but also given more than $56,000 in back pay.

Normally, one would think that such a plea would result in losing one’s job, imprisonment and maybe a fine, but the exact opposite happened for Detective Harry McCarthy, a 57-year-old member of the Ogdensburg Police Department.

McCarthy had served his community for 30 years, but that came to an abrupt halt in 2015 when he came under investigation by the New York State Police and Federal Bureau of Investigation.

Fox 28 reports:

McCarthy was indicted by a federal grand jury in 2016 on charges of sexually exploiting a child for the purpose of creating child pornography and for distributing, receiving, possessing and transporting child pornography.

He also faces state felony charges of possessing and promoting a sexual performance of a child after he allegedly uploaded a picture to his personal e-mail account of a young girl having sex with an adult male.

The indictment accused McCarthy of inducing a 13 year old to engage in “sexually explicit conduct for the purpose of creating images” in 2013 and 2014.

He was arrested in August 2015 and collected $56,000 in pay from the city while on suspension. That ended when he retired at the end of June.

His arrest came after Google alerted law enforcement that an image was uploaded to its servers which depicted child pornography, according to New York Upstate.

Those images included photos investigators said he took of a 13-year-old girl while she was asleep. Investigators said McCarthy moved the girl’s underwear to expose her as he took photos.

McCarthy stored 36 photos of the victim on his computer in a special file. Investigators determined 29 of the images were pornographic.

According to court papers, McCarthy used a computer program, “Join Me,” to share child pornography over the internet.

After tracking the IP address, police were able to then search McCarthy’s laptop where they discovered the images.

McCarthy pleaded admitted to the crime which occurred in 2013 and 2014 when he used the 13-year-old girl to make pornography.

Mr. McCarthy retired as a lieutenant in July 2016, after being placed on paid administrative leave for nine months following his arrest, according to The Watertown Daily Times.

During his time on leave, he was paid $58,685, according to City Manager Sarah Purdy.

McCarthy faces 15 years in prison when he’s sentenced April 18, 2018.

Republished with permission Freedom Outpost

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