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Child Sexual Abuse Includes Touching and Non-Touching Behaviors

Touching behaviors include:

  • Touching a child’s genitals (penis,testicles,vulva,breasts, or anus) for sexual pleasure or other unnecessary reasons.
  • Making a child touch someone else’s genitals, or playing sexual (“pants down”) games.
  • Putting objects or body parts (like fingers, tongue or a penis) inside the vulva or vagina, in the mouth, or in the anus of a child for sexual pleasure or other unnecessary reason.

Non-touching behaviors include:

  • Showing pornography to a child.
  • Exposing a person’s genitals to a child.
  • Photographing a child in sexual poses.
  • Encouraging a child to watch or hear sexual acts either in person or on a video.
  • Watching a child undress or use the bathroom, often without the child’s knowledge (known as voyeurism or being a “peeping Tom”).

If you recognize any of these behaviors and do not know how to talk about these issues, or you want further information, in Georgia please call our helpline toll free at 1-800 CHILDREN (1-800-244-5373)

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FIVE GOOD RESPONSES

If a child tells you that he/she has been abused, there are five important things to say during the initial conversation. These are:

  1. I believe you.
  2. I am glad you told me.
  3. It is not your fault this happened.
  4. (Sexual) Abuse is wrong.
  5. I will help you so that it will stop.

The following are examples of possible ways to begin such a conversation. Use these only as a guide and adapt to fit your style of talking.

  1. I have been worried about you lately. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?
  2. Something seems to be bothering you. Would you like to talk so that I may help you?
  3. I have been able to help other children who have problems. If you would be willing to tell me what is bothering you, maybe I can help you, too.
  4. If a child asks you to promise not to tell anyone, it is important to let the child know that yo are not able to promise that right now., but you do promise to help him/her in anyway you can.
  5. If a child describes a problem that is happening to a friend, ask him/her if anything like that has ever happened to you (the child).

Responses to avoid: 

  1. Are you sure that is happening?
  2. Are you telling me the truth?
  3. Why are you telling me?
  4. Let me know if it happens again?
  5. Why didn’t you stop him? or What did you do to make this happen?

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The Story of the Rose

God created the rose for Women.

It represents beauty.

Its petals represent soft skin.

Its leaves represent outstretched arms,

    always loving and giving.

Its stem represents strength.

I give this rose to you,

for you are special to me.

Each time you look at the rose, remember…

YOU are SOMEBODY.

God did not take the time

to make a nobody.

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You Deserve Peace

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