Too many times people tell us, “Oh you shouldn’t feel that way.” We need to listen to the person’s heart. If they are hurting that is what they are feeling from within. It is not right and it is not wrong. It is what it is and hurts can be healed but not by ignoring the feelings. Yes, there are rights and there are wrongs in this world and the Lord knows what is best for us. He will convict us of wrong doing or thinking but when it comes to our hearts, He knows exactly where we are. So we need to be careful in possibly adding more pain by condemning another of what is happening within their heart.