“God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him” (1 John 4: 16).
The image we have of God is greatly influenced by the childhood experience with our own fathers, and the men who – willingly or not – filled that role in our lives. We view God as possessing all their faults while, at the same time, blaming Him for those faults.
Abuse necessarily darkens the lens through which we see God.
If our fathers were absent, chances are we will see God as absent and unconcerned for our welfare. If the men with whom we had relationships as children were hard and critical of us, we are likely to see God as harsh and judgmental.
If our fathers were cruel and sadistic, or molested us under the guise of “love”, we may see God as cruel or deceptive, and…
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